tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9705892.post8397981691667209349..comments2023-05-11T02:59:43.456-07:00Comments on Whatever: Wednesday RamblingsKellyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05994341539552086268noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9705892.post-6599251839339303502010-10-17T05:46:17.630-07:002010-10-17T05:46:17.630-07:00Waiting for friends to call is tricky. I've do...Waiting for friends to call is tricky. I've done this approach myself and honestly, it just makes me feel shittier because the fact is some of my friends are not doers - they will always be the type who will just sit around waiting for someone to ask them to do something. I've learned I'm the doer, or as this one person, tangerine, calls it - I'm of the ask culture:<br /><br />http://ask.metafilter.com/55153/Whats-the-middle-ground-between-FU-and-Welcome#830421<br /><br />I think it rings so true. Don't give up, Kelly. Go ahead and ask when you need someone. They'll be there.Barriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08181666882587766770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9705892.post-71710002782489307902010-10-16T12:47:46.923-07:002010-10-16T12:47:46.923-07:00It is good you know that we all do the best we can...It is good you know that we all do the best we can...and sometimes that is not enough when you are hurting. The trick is to learn to understand that no matter where you are in your own grief process---"they can't get there from here". Only you can choose to do--or not do that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com